What kind of woman are you?

*What kind of woman are you?*

Today's writing is that turmoil rising in the writer's mind, which repeatedly provokes him to question and wants to ask, O great sisters of my nation, what kind of woman are you? All gentlemen should read this writing, especially women, and analyze themselves and see what kind of woman you are.

Where does a woman flourish and where does she get lost?

A woman is never inherently wrong; society, circumstances, and wrong decisions mislead her. Sometimes she sacrifices, sometimes she falls in prostration, and sometimes she starts mending a broken heart, but the real question is, does every woman really become a (woman)?

Or does she get trapped in the chains of just a body, a voice, or self-admiration somewhere along the way?

Let's understand these aspects of a woman's personality today, not for criticism but for construction, not to pass judgment but to awaken consciousness. Tell me, you are no ordinary woman, but you are a princess of Islam. You don't have to fall into the traps of the world. You are that great human being that if you are immersed in the worship of God and present a plea in the court of the Holy God, orders are issued for you, and your dignity is such that when you are in your parents' house, your parents feel proud and only talk about you at every turn, and if some unfortunate person doesn't and thinks badly, what does it matter? My Prophet ﷺ has said (Allah Almighty bestows a daughter upon the person He is pleased with). My Prophet is truthful and trustworthy. When you come to your husband's house, Allah bestows blessings in your husband's livelihood. It is said (The Prophet of Allah ﷺ: O companions, if you want to be rich, then get married), and when Allah Almighty bestows children upon you, the hardworking father is responsible for sustenance, but then the Prophet of Allah ﷺ said that Paradise is under the mother's feet, and Islam has protected your honor to such an extent that you are not even allowed to say "uff" to your parents. For God's sake, you have to understand yourself. You are no ordinary woman, but you have to understand the laws of Islam. You are certainly people of a high standard, but you have to understand yourself. Remember this, no man is complete without you, and no man needs you. This is a philosophy.

٭I hope you have understood how much respect Islam has bestowed٭

Well, let's move on and apply these questions to you:

The first turn: That girl who considers the mirror to be her reality, who considers the body to be strength, the face to be the key to success, and the attention of men to be the flag of victory. Her world is the pictures of social media, the number of likes, and the best angle for a selfie. She thinks that living openly is freedom, whether it means immodesty or carelessness. She is attractive but scattered. She is visible but does not leave an impact.

She has not become a woman; she has only remained a (charming girl), and now she is only doing the work of charming for the rest of her life and nothing else.

The second stage: That woman who lives only in the light of reason

A degree in hand but emptiness in the heart

She is holding the flag of independence but is afraid of loneliness

She shouts the slogan (My body, my choice) but is unaware of the reality of her own choice. In her eyes, man is a tyrant, and a relationship is a chain.

She talks, but not from the heart, but gives reasons for everything but no connection. She is intelligent but lacks wisdom, has awareness but no peace. She only sits with her degree among a few people and considers herself separate from the religion of Islam, and she considers only that to be her everything. For God's sake, let no one think that I am against contemporary education. I myself am still studying contemporary education, but my purpose is to connect my sisters to religion and to tell them what abilities you possess. You have the ability to give your husband a high position, but you will only become capable of this when you understand Islam.

The third stage: That wife who is the epitome of understanding, loyalty, and dignity. She knows that along with love, discipline is also the foundation of a relationship. She considers her husband not a burden but a trust. Her beauty is hidden, but her capacity is unparalleled.

She gives advice but does not bring bitterness. She fulfills her duties without erasing herself. Such a woman is not just a wife; she is peace, protection, and the threshold of paradise, and then the world sees that she is not just a good wife; she is also a good mother and the best mentor for her children.

The fourth degree: That mother who nurtures generations, not ego. This mother does not just give birth to children; she weaves ideologies. She stays awake at night, cries for her children, and sacrifices herself for their dreams.

She does not want the world's praise but only wants to see the prayer received upon her children's success become a reality.

She is not just a woman; she is the light of generations, the answer to prayers, and the fragrance of paradise.

But alas, some women stopped

Some got entangled only in the world of beauty and body, some got lost in the darkness of loneliness only in the light of reason, and Muslim women understood themselves to be only housewives and nothing else. Islam has allowed you to stay at home so that you can give good training to the children of the house, acquaint them with the dark paths of the world, and tell them that you have to become not only an earner but also one who sacrifices his life for Islam, to support the oppressed, which is the civilization of Islam, but for God's sake, we have strayed from our civilization, and if any entity can bring this nation back to our civilization, then it is the laps of our mothers in which Islam used to grow. May Allah grant that day and grant my sisters the ability to understand. Ameen.

When your foot faltered slightly, then the whole Ummah has fallen on its face,

Relationships began to fall apart, men began to stray, and children lost self-confidence.

The question is not that you are a woman; the question is what kind of woman are you?

Are you still searching for your identity in the mirror?

Or are you traveling on the path of consciousness?

Do you give arguments or have the art of winning hearts?

Do you only wish to become a wife or also have the determination to become a mother?

I only have one request from you: do not count age, count consciousness.

Can you control yourself?

Can you keep your ego under your feet?

Do you know the art of sacrifice?

If you can speak the truth to yourself today, then your daughter will be proud of you tomorrow.

Because being a woman is not just the name of beauty; it is a continuous struggle with one's own self, with social pressure, and with the glitter of the world. When you understand who we are, then see, this world will automatically improve. You are a woman, yes, a woman, but not an ordinary woman, but you are a princess of Islam. You have to do something for Islam, and my firm determination says that you can still do it today. May Allah Almighty bring my plans to fruition and grant my sisters the ability to understand. Ameen Ya Rabb Al-Alameen, by the grace of the Holy Prophet ﷺ.

*✍️Mutalim Al-Jamia Al-Ashrafia✍️*