*⚠ Wife's Sister ⚠*
We all know that
in our society, the word "Saali" (sister-in-law) is used for the wife's sister....
Although the word doesn't seem very appropriate,
let's start the discussion with this name....
Generally, the elder sisters of the wife are married, and even if they are unmarried, with time, seriousness and forbearance have come into their nature....
While the younger sisters of the wife are at that stage of life when every aspect of life seems beautiful and every turn seems charming....
In such a situation, the sister's marriage and a new person, i.e., the brother-in-law, being related to the house also has a unique color....
Due to the common practice of society, these younger Saalis generally joke with their brother-in-law and also take great care of their brother-in-law....
Whenever the sister has to go to her parents' house,
often these Saalis give their full time to the sister and brother-in-law to save them from boredom....
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Now let's talk from the man's perspective....
A proverb is famous in our society....
Saali...
Half the house's owner...
Often, when men sit among their dear friends, a strange smile appears on their faces at the mention of younger Saalis....
Friends also help to deepen this smile with suggestive sentences....
This reality is strange but true, it exists in society....
Their Saalis are often unaware of this aspect of their brother-in-law....
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Now let's look at this aspect from the perspective of Islam....
According to Islam, there is a Sharia (Islamic law) covering between brother-in-law and Saali....
The brother-in-law is a non-Mahram (marriageable kin) to the Saali, and due to his occasional presence inside the house, great care is needed in this covering....
This is a reality that the girl's parents also turn a blind eye to....
Often, the brothers-in-law also consider this covering as an insult to themselves....
And the Saalis ignore it with the thought that "our brother-in-law is like our brother"....
And this dangerous level of inclination may not be known to anyone other than the brother-in-law....
And that brother-in-law will never tell his wife about this inclination either....
This is such a silent poison that either that man knows about it, or Allah Almighty knows the state of his heart....
Men do not have enough faith to admit their actions....
Please! Do not fall into this test....
It is requested to the wife's parents to make their other daughters observe Sharia covering from the son-in-law....
It is requested to the wife's sisters to stay behind themselves so that the brother-in-law is convinced that my Saalis are hesitant and shy....
And it is requested to the men to not treat this relative relationship as "free property, merciless heart" and refrain from harboring petty and useless desires in their hearts....
May Allah Almighty enable us to realize the reality of this subtle issue, Amen.